Goddess Superior's Bio
For those of you wanting to know a little more about me, I'm an Alpha Female, an experienced professional Dominatrix, fetish & glamour model, producer, studio owner & entreprenuer. I have 20 years worth of experience working within the glamour & adult industry.
I started modelling and acting back in 2000. I moved into doing fetish work very soon after and naturally progressed into the world of domination & femdom. I worked for various spanking websites doing photo & video shoots & subsequently got offers for private sessions and thought why not! It's great fun, I can put my own unique twist into the sessions and the money was good too! It's like play fighting for adults.
It has also been quite a journey for mysef as I ventured down the femdom road - I began to understnd myself more as well as other people. This was the missing piece of the puzzle I had been looking for.
I grew up in South Africa in the 80's! It was a very strict country! I went to a private Catholic school which was extremely strict to say the least! From a very young age high standards & discipline were instilled into you! You learned how to respect yourself, others and your surroundings! If you didn't you were punished! They still used CP!
When my parents moved back to the UK it was very hard to adjust. People here lacked the discipline and respect towards others, something still to this day is hard to find! It was chaotic, people were disrespectful and it seemed that breaking rules was the thing to do not follow them!
That was until I found my way into the fetish & femdom scene in my early 20's. It all began to make some kind of sense. Talking to others they too had experienced strict childhoods or had interesting experiences that had too led them too the fetish/femdom world. People who valued discipline, respect & high standards! Or at least they want to learn to be better and understand the importance of such morals! This in itself is a subject I could talk about at length but for now I will leave this here.
Prior to my experiences within this industry and area of life, I had many experiences with putting men in their place.
Play fights & verbal abuse were also a regular occurance too whilst growing up. Sadly you have to grow out of that when you enter the big wide adult world!! Well it was never acceptable to kick, slap or tie people up in any of the offices I've worked in - despite encountering many that needed it to sort their attitude or behviour out! Tell people they're total fuckwits doesn't seem to go down well either.
I've always been a feisty little chick - and then developed into being strong independent woman as I matured. This too was something that was seen as a bad thing at times but encouraged and respected greatly within the femdom community!
Whilst I believe balance and mutual respect, equality and understanding is important in ANY form of relationship! I'm certainly not going to do things solely on others terms (male or female) when I have my own points of view as well as needs and requirements - I do like to be in control or at the very least share responsibilities in any relationships. Thus said I am more than happy to take the lead, but treat others as I would wish to be treated. Dominance isn't about "bossing" people around. No one likes (or respects) a bossy boots!! It isn't about being aggressive, it's about leadership & control being exerted in the correct manner. Authority and RESPECT in BOTH directions!
I think it is still a very misunderstood concept and yes on the surface things may look harsh & mean. It's a psychological game with many facets.
You will find me polite & possess good manners! I can't very well discipline someone for being rude if I do not uphold such standards personally!
I believe dominance comes in many forms. Whilst I am approachable, amenable, well spoken, friendly and polite. I am in no way a push over or someone that can be taken advantage of just because I don't appear to be loud and proud (or in my opinion obnoxious.) I often think that because you have manners and are polite these days you are seen to be weak and people try and take advantage! They are soon met with a surprise!
I have often been described as strong and unbreakable! I am also caring and very feminine. I regularly hear mid session "how can someone so nice be so cruel" haha. I'm a true lady! I possess class & elegance with a sadistic twist thrown in for good measure.
I'm naturally a dominant person, I'm not pushy, unless I need to be. Never a nice character trait! I want my subs to willingly submit out of respect not force, however there will always be punishments for failings and bad behaviour!
I simply despise rudeness, arrogance, bullying type mentalities and people taking advantge of others, unless of course you are requesting it in the safe boundaries of a session! I ALWAYS practice safe, sane & consensual play!
Despite being relatively laid back, liberal & open minded with many areas of life - I am still very strict when it matters during sessions and have a very traditional, conservative approach to life generally. I have very high standards to meet in - many areas of life. Respect for people and things around you being top of my list! My sessions are no exception to this rule! I like things done properly!
I don't suffer fools gladly and take no nonsense from ANYBODY! In or out of sessions.
I think on occasion people have misinterpreted me to be weaker than others because I'm not brash and outspoken! It has on occasion been assumed because I do not push myself forward or above others, I do not have anything to contribute - this is far from the case. Do not be fooled by my appearance or demeanour. I'm full of surprises so be warned. I am always one step ahead!! A lot goes on inside my mind rather than yabbering away like an idiot in order to "appear" dominant and in control yet not really saying anything worthwhile. I'm observant and watching everything that goes on!
You can learn an awful lot from listening and observing!!!!! "Quality over quantity" Is another motto of mine that I apply to ALL areas of life! That's not to say I don't have a lot to talk about! I am often described as "opinionated" & "interesting". I simply like listening too as that's how you learn the most and knowledge is POWER. "Watch, listen & learn!" What do they say about the "quiet" ones ;)
Communication is not always about talking!! It is a 2 way thing. You do not learn from talking alone - listening, understanding and observing are equally as important in learning and communicating with others . You have 2 ears and 1 mouth use them proportionately! It is very important to communicate properly in order to understand what my submissives are looking for with regards to their session requirements. This involves listening to understand their individual needs. I opt for quality not quantity in all areas of life and that includes inviting subs to my sessions!
I enjoy what I do and feel that my sessions are a time to express that in a controlled fantasy environment. I can accomplish what might not be acceptable in everyday life with willing participants. But be careful what you ask for - you may just get it!!! Oh how I wish I were able to carry out some of these punishments in the real world lol.
I session because I want to, not because I need too! So make sure you are respectful at all times and interesting in your application!
There is never a dull moment during my sessions, I get bored easily so like to keep things interesting rather than predictable and one dimensional! I love adding a touch of humour too!
My very presence and everything about me from my guise, manner & characteristics, softly spoken voice, beautiful scent of perfume and my delicate but dangerous touch will have you enchanted & wanting to please me with good behaviour, because failing to do so will leave you mentally and physically drained and in lots of trouble!
Oh how I love first encounters, nervous beyond belief and quivering voices....hehehe.
You will experience every emotion from love, fear, hate, adoration, remorse, regret & more when you are with me!
I'm not your 'usual' Dominatrix or Mistress!!! I'm more than just a woman in PVC branding a whip. Domination is far more than that. The psychological aspects of domination run far deeper than pain or marks to your body! The psychological aspect plays a far bigger part in domination than any whip or cane marks!!
If you love powerful, intelligent, classy women you've most definitely come to the right place!
I am fun, interesting, intelligent and have a great sense of humour. I love to tease and can be cruel - in many ways!
Dominance is a control over something, you don't have to be aggressive, swear & shout & use fear to achieve that. I don't need to threaten or use brute force in order to get co-operation - unless that is a requirement in which case I will enjoy it. I do not need you to fear me in order to get you to comply with my rules. I use a mix of all my abilities including gentleness, in a calm, controlled and instinctive nature to gain respect, authority and compliance from you! My unique approach in dominating men is one to be experienced. I love giving real punishments to set you guys on the straight and narrow! I will use my intuitve nature to determine the best course of action for each individual in my presence. I treat everyone individually - not the same!! Because we are all different and interact differently with different people.
There is always room to improve, learn, understand and progress in life. I don't believe I am nor ever will be "the best". If you think you have reached your goal - it is unlikely you will ever improve yourself as a person or your skills or knowledge in my opinion. I continue to learn from each session and better my skills as a Mistress.
I'm not easily shocked! I treat my subs, slaves, fetishists & kinksters as individuals and cater for your needs specifically. I am happy to work with the experienced, inexperienced, complete newcomers and anything in between provided you are genuine with your interest in discipline & female dominance.
I'm open minded & like to listen & build relationships with my clients no matter what the reason for your visit. I believe this is an important factor in getting the best possible experiences for the session. I like to enjoy my sessions too! And also feel that my subs have benefited from them also! Aftercare is important and your feedback is alway sappreciated as this helps me grow further in developing my art.
I don't like going through the motions - I may be a professional and earn a living from doing this, but I take this very seriously indeed. If I don't like something I don't do it for the sake of earning money! I only do what I enjoy doing!! I do not appreciate timewasters in the slightest - I am always happy to discuss genuine concerns towards your session. But you will only get one chance to capture my attention and meet my expectations. Fail or let me down in anyway and you will not be invited back. I will not tolerate sub-standard behaviour and if you don't meet my expectations you won't get to session with me! I'm picky as to who is invited to session with me!
I can be considerate & always fair! But also VERY cruel, merciless & have a real sadistic streak!! But remember it is for your own benefit and you probably deserve it :)
I demand respect at all times whilst you engage with me pre, during & post sessions. Otherwise you will simply be ignored! I have no time for childish nonsense!
I'm a woman in control & know exactly what I want & always get it, I don't stop until I do. I am not for the faint hearted, weak or lazy unless you are looking to change your ways! You will not forget me in a hurry!
Here's a little insight into me, however, please do not assume you know me from looking at this website nor meeting me for a brief encounter over my knee!! I have many hidden depths and talents to discover! I am a REAL superior woman! Not a pretend one!
Miss Superior xxx
(c) Superior Woman 2019
NAME: Goddess Superior (you may call me, Miss or Mistress also)
LOCATION: I am primarily based in Peterborough & regularly session in Yorkshire & tour other areas.
AGE: Old enough. The images on this website are a true representation of my current appearance. Yes it really is me!!! I am always told I look better in real life too than my photos portray.
Height: 5'3" Compact, curvaceous & feminine - small (but perfectly formed) powerful and dangerous! I'm 5'7-8" in heels!
Sunshine, laughing, travelling, meeting people, nature, animals.
Being happy, seeing people I care about happy. My family & friends.
Experiencing all things life has to offer. Learning, Helping others, Having Fun.
Life, Music, Dancing, Good Food, Relaxing, Sleep.
Being me, Being Pampered, Clothes, Shoes, shopping spa treatments, make up & beauty, fitness & health.
Reading, Business, Psychology, Politics, Interior Design, Making Things.
In people important traits for me are honesty, trust, care, reliability, good sense of humor, openmind, respect towards other people and things around them, humility, being able to relate to others and put yourself in others shoes, being non judgemental or hypocritical. Basically don't be a dick!
Milk, Tea & Coffee, Animal Cruelty, Littering, Media Hype, Being Late, No Shows & Timewasters! People that don't indicate on roundabouts (W*nkers!)
In people I can't tolerate rudeness or bad manners.
I despise liars, cheats, bitchiness, backstabbing, bullies, cowards, ignorance (why would you choose to be stupid?!) arrogance (so unnatractive) selfishness & jealousy (so ugly).
Religion & do-gooders - for reasons of narrow mindedness, judgemental, hypocrites.
Gossips (you always get it wrong! Get a life of your own to talk about)
People that don't think- especially before they speak.
Laziness & excuses!!
Stalking, obsessive & needy behaviour - just NO!
People who think they know it all! You can never know everything even if you know a lot about something!!!
Shallowness, self absorbed....me, me, me, me people (yes there really is a world outside of your own!)
NARCISSISTS!! Because they are all of the above and more!
QUESTIONS & ANSWERS INTERVIEW
Q: What are your favourite sessions?
A: I love real discipline sessions where the punishments are real bad behaviour! Grown up boys are very naughty!!!! I do enjoy & I'm very experienced at roleplay also!
Q: What are your favourite forms of punishments?
A: Ballbusting and CP! Without a doubt - hard to choose between the two! Both methods seem equally as effective at achieving desired results!
Q:Why do you like dominating & disciplining men?
A: Haha - good question. I love it for many reasons. It's highly amusing and totally random which makes me laugh so therefore makes me happy! Secondly I find men highly exasperating at times with their little man-like ways, lack of respect & consideration towards women & generally not thinking! So to have control over a male and make him think and show him the error of his ways is such a good feeling. I could go on but hopefully you have the gist. My how different the world would be if all men had a good kick in the balls occasionally or spanked bottom ;)
I also love hearing about all these things naughty grown up men get up too! Fascinating!! And then choosing their fate for their unnacceptable behaviour is truly empowering. Confessions are great! And you cannot lie to your Mistress!
I am by no means a man hater!! Nor think women are without fault! We're just a lot better ;) and should be appreciated for our femininity and superior brains!! Lol. Men should protect & look after women!
I also like my job because it enables me to de-stress & let off steam, it's quite theraputic in many ways, you get to carry out scenarios in a controlled environment which you are not able to do in every day life, but probably feel like doing - not without getting arrested anyway!!!
Q: What star sign are you?
A: I'm a Scorpio - and a very true one at that! My sting hurts!!
Q: What are your pet hates?
A: I can't stand ignorance!! Bad manners, or people that don't think - especially before they speak. I also dislike people that are disrespectful towards others or their surroundings. My subs will always be punished for a careless attitude when I'm around! I also greatly frown upon subs trying to call all the shots or being too pushy! This is a sure fire way of getting ignored!
Q: What are your favourite items of clothing?
A: It totally depends on my mood!! And the occasion! I love clothes from smart and sophisticated, formal through to designer wear, jeans, leather, corsets and fetishwear especially tight PVC & rubber. Nice heels be it boots or shoes are a must also as are nice lingerie sets and my favourite bikinis "Wicked Weasels". I like variety otherwise I get bored very easily! Uniforms are always fun as gives me the chance to dress up in clothes I don't get chance to wear often!
Q: How did you become a Pro Domme?
A: I've been a professional model for over 15 years. During my modelling career I have undertaken many fetish assignments including working for femdom websites. It was all a gradual progression over time. I never set out to be a domme, even though it suits me well! It sort of found me, I guess it was my destiny...haha.
After working for various fetish websites, I started getting enquiries for private sessions. Initially I was like "no way, I can't do that" it just didn't seem right, but over time, the more shoots I did, people I met and experienced I got, I really enjoyed femdom work so took things further. It was the right decision for me. I can put my own unique twist into my private sessions - my clients are all lovely too!
Q: What do you most enjoy about your job?
A: It's been such a journey over the years. I still enjoy my job, a lot has changed, even my own personal preferences and tastes have changed over time too. I've been in the fetish scene for 15 years!! I love being independent and not having to answer to anyone. I can just be me, I make the rules, if I don't want to do something I don't have too. That's such a great feeling! I answer to me only! My job is also fun, no two days are ever the same, I get to meet some really interesting people from all sorts of different backgrounds and areas.
I've also launched my new adult & fetish store Kinky Desires. It's awesome! Hard work at times but I love developing my new business and building my kinky brand. I always have had a business head and background.
I still model too so all in all a busy bee but with lots of variety - variety is the spice of life. I love my photo shoots. It's a chance for me to let my artistic side flow. I love creating high quality images! You're going to see a whole lot more of my fetish shoots in 2016!! There's a lot going on!!
Q: What's the worst thing about your job?
A: The timewasters and idiots!! There's a lot! I take a lot of precautions and measures to filter them out, they're pretty easy to spot with 15 years experience under my belt. My anti-bullshit radar kicks in!
Q: What's your favourite fetish outfit to wear?
A: At the moment it is definitely latex! I have done quite a few shoots lately wearing lots of stunning latex outfits and they just look amazing!! I love the way latex fits your curves perfectly. It really is a second skin! I am starting to build my own latex collection - I want to become the Latex Queen! I am already the Queen of Kink, so I may as well do it properly and add latex into the mix as well. You can't be the Queen of Kink without a well stocked latex wardrobe!! I also have a latex fund if anyone would like to contribute ;)
Q: Where else can we see you?
A: Have a look at the links below. I have my official websites, social media accounts and other online profiles and websites connected to me.
I hope to start work on my blog on Kinky Desires in 2019! Very exciting, make sure you keep an eye out for this, it's going to be really interesting and have lots of advice, experiences and interesting topics about BDSM, relationships, lifestyle & more.
You can also sign up to my newsletter to receive regular updates on all my news - check out my news page.
Q: Other than real time sessions how can sub's serve you?
Q: What qualities do you look for in a sub?
A: Intelligence, manners & being respectful. Good communication skills. Able to follow basic instructions. Honesty. Integrity. The ability to organise their schedules effectively and stick to arrangements & make commitmets! And arrive ON TIME for their appointment. A good sense of humor is always a plus point!
Q: What's a sure fire way of getting ignored as a sub?
A: It's important that we connect! I am picky as to who I see for sessions, if I don't think we will get on, it's unlikely we will session! If you're rude, pushy, frequently fail to stick to arrangements without very good reason, if I suspect you're lying, become too needy or obsessive, can't control your emotions in a balanced manner, poor standards of hygiene, lack interpersonal skills, waste my time, find you difficult to deal with will get you ignored or won't be invited back again.
Q: Any advice for new subs?
A: Do not bombard me with emails every 5 minutes! I am very busy and not online 24/7. I will reply when I can. I don't need 10 emails on top of each other because I haven't replied to you straightaway. This is very irritating and puts me off wanting to engage with you. Be patient!
Do not arrive early for your appointment! I always have a busy schedule arriving early is always inconvenient! I always leave enough time between appointments without you needing to arrive early.
Just be normal when dealing with me as you would anyone else! Make an effort, don't be vague, there's no need to be shy! I'm quite open minded.
Q: What's your favoutite type of session?
A: Fun sessions! It's the people that make or break a session! It's nice when someone can laugh at themselves. Role play sessions are good too, especially when you have a good rapport with each other. I love confessions and punishments for real life misdemeanours!
Q: How do you prepare for a session?
A: I deal with all enquiries so I can refer back to them and refresh my memory before my appointments. I then get everything I need ready and prepped, then get myself ready and take my selfies for Twitter lol. I try to be as organised as possible as this makes for a much better session.
Q: What can a client expect from a session with you?
A: They will receive a professional, friendly greeting in a relaxed, clean, safe & comfortable environment. Upon arrival my clients are usually very nervous so I like to have a chat, general chit chat to calm nerves. Then double check everything we have discussed via email is still OK and if they have any last minute questions. I brief them on how things will start, show them where we are going to be working. It's important they feel comfortable & happy with what's going on. I pride myself on giving my clients exactly what they want. It's a business transaction, albeit slightly different from the norm. You'd be pretty peed off if a decorator painted your hallways blue because he thought it looked better than the colour you had chosen, so why would I disregard what my clients are looking for? I want them to be happy & return! I like to be clear on the boundaries and then within those boundaries anything goes! I never cross an individuals limits. I'm great at reading people and their reactions so I know just how far to push them.
Q: What do you think is the biggest misconception about working as a Pro Domme?
A: I can only speak from my own personal experiences and a lot of people, especially outside of the industry and lifestyle just don't understand what it is that I offer! People seem to think you're just a kinky prostitute!!! No, no, NO! It is not sexual, it's largely psychological! It's more psychological than it is physical or even about pain! I consider myself to be a Disciplinarian, I teach discipline and administer punishments! Sexual activities are not punishments!!
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